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[kuangning]

Small change made to my friends list, which only affects one person. It is personal. It isn't because I dislike you, though, and I am not angry at you, but I need some more stability in my life than I've had lately. Pins and needles don't agree with me. I was going to do this earlier, but doing it while you were gone with no explanation you'd see any time predictably soon seemed a low blow. I'm still around if you'd like to discuss things, but I'm not going to push, I am not going to initiate dialogue, and this is something I do feel I need to do.

I am sorry.

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[serendipity.livejournal.com]

I hope the person understands. I can certainly relate. I've acuqired a need to stay away from volatile, unstable people. In the past I've tried to be there for them, to provide them some semblance of stability. But it wreaks havoc with my own sense of stability. So, for the most part, I need to keep a healthy distance.

[minn.livejournal.com]

I hear you. Been there, done that. While feeling pain all the time.

[kuangning]

It's not that they're either volatile or unstable. It's just a situation that hurts, and moving on seems to be the best route for everyone involved. It's easier to do that if I'm not constantly aware that they're around. I'm the stubborn clingy type, but even I have to give up sometimes.

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[serendipity.livejournal.com]

Oh, I must have misunderstood your meaning when you wrote about being stable.

Anyway, you're right, sometimes you just have to let go.